Meet fewer people.
Meet the right ones.

Yes, as an admissions rule. For every man we admit to One to One, we admit a woman. When one side runs ahead, applications from that side wait until the other side catches up. We hold it county by county, so the balance you're promised is the balance around you.

Because of the ratio. If we admitted everyone who applied, we'd be lopsided within a week, like every other app. You wait until there's someone on the other side to admit alongside you.

It depends on your county and which side of the ratio you're on. We'll tell you where you stand rather than leaving you guessing.

Because it's the only way to promise that everyone here is a real, adult person. Stripe, our verification partner, checks your government ID against a live selfie. It applies to every member without exception, and you can't pay to skip it.

It goes to Stripe, our verification partner, not to us. Stripe checks the photo of your ID against your selfie. We keep the result, Stripe's reference, the date, and that you're over 18. Not your documents, not your biometrics. No member ever sees any of it.

No. A person reviews each application for completeness and intent, not attractiveness. We're checking that you're here for the same reason everyone else is.

Interest is how you tell someone you want to know them, and it's unlimited. You can add a note. They read it only if they're interested too; otherwise they never hear about it. When it's mutual, the conversation opens.

Everyone joins free at launch. The first 100 members admitted are founding members: they get a founding member badge and will never pay for a One to One membership. A paid membership may come later, and we'll tell you the price before we ever ask you for it. Free, for good: verification, every safety tool (block, report, unmatch), unlimited Interest, chat, and your age, distance and looking-for preferences. Later, an optional paid plan will add more filters and let you see who's interested in you.

Nothing, yet. Everyone joins free and there are no subscriptions at launch, so there's nothing to cancel. If a paid plan comes later, you'll cancel it through your App Store or Google Play subscription settings, in a few taps, and nobody will try to talk you out of it. Cancelling never deletes your account. That's a separate choice you can make any time.

Your profile is removed. Holding an even ratio only works if the members on both sides are actually present, so we don't keep a place open for a profile that's gone quiet. You're welcome back any time, but you'll reapply and join the waitlist like everyone else.

We're opening across the United States first. The ratio is held county by county, so your county comes alive as soon as there's a woman and a man to admit together there. Join the list and you'll be first in when yours does.

Anyone over 18 who can verify their identity and agrees to our standards. One woman for every man describes women and men looking to meet each other. Men seeking men and women seeking women join too: they're introduced only to members looking for the same, so they don't wait on the ratio.

No, we don't sell your data. And yes, you can delete your account any time, from the app. Read the privacy notice for the full picture.